Alright -- I feel that I need to get this out there. If I have added you and we don't get along and by chance, I add another page of yours --- it isn't because I'm stalking you, it's because I don't know it's you. The simple and best solution to avoid any drama is for you not to accept my request.
Everybody's happy -- it's a win-win. But don't bitch at me if you accept and we don't get along again, some people just don't fit together. It's nothing personal until you make it so and get weird.