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07/22/2020 05:31 PM 

//ooc Rant on Mulitble SL-RPers
Category: Guidelines



Honestly, I´d never thought that I need to write about this... but well, here we go:
I am a live and let live person, and do not tell people how to conduct the way they RP.
I do not judge.
Nor then, should people judge me for being a Multi-SL RPer.

Yes, I am a Multible-SL-RPer.
I am here to write – 1x1-stories and sometimes drabbles just for fun.
DIVERSE stories, DIVERSE verses.
Meaning: none of my 1x1-stories or drabbles are connected, neither do they influence each other nor correlate!
And yes I take over ideas that evolved while writing drabbles into my 1x1stories – sometimes, seldom and not without asking the other player and discussing things before that.
I NOT however copy things from one 1x1-stoy to another, and I NOT use character-development/relationships happening in one 1x1-story in other 1x1-stories

Further: there seems to be one, rather wide-spread, gross misconception and stereotype:
“Being a Multi-SL RPer is just an excuse to f*uck as many people as you want.”
Perhaps this is true for some people, but it isn't true for EVERYONE!
My characters extremely rarely get involved in romantic relationships (and only with characters of other players I have known for a while and if the story we write logically might evolve that way).
If I was here for sex, you would know.- I AM NOT!

I am NOT here looking for someone to f… or be f…ed. If something like a romantic relationship might develop in the course of a story - well, if it fits it fits… but that is something that needs time and never will be the sole purpose and content of one of my stories.
All my characters put together I have been RPing over the past decade they all have been engaged in surely not more than about half a dozen romantic relationships over all those years - so yeah, here we go, got the concept?

Why do I rant about this very topic so much? –
Well, it irks me when people add me with the sole purpose of having my character hook up with theirs, then get annoyed with me when I do not readily delve into a discussion that suggests this very nature of our story.. .and ONLY this very nature – or when, after having written the first few paragraphs, my character doesn't instantly fall head over heels in love with theirs.
That simply is not how I work in general and even more important:  that is totally out of character for this very character! So, no!

And one more thing I have noticed in my 15+ years of roleplaying is that Multi-SL characters have the least amount of drama.
No: “You cheated on me... I'm going to delete you and tell everyone not to RP with you because you cheated on me!” No nothing like this!
Honestly. Our characters being in a relationship does not mean the writers are in a relationship.
It is necessary to differentiate between what is fiction and what is RL!

That, being said, ends my rant.
- A Multi-SL Rper.

 

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